Reignite Your Spark in Tuscany
The strongest relationships are nurtured intentionally.
Ma Chérie Studios and Feminist Sex Ed are teaming up again to help you reignite your lust, connection, and excitement for each other.
Nine sets of partners (triads are welcome!) will spend five nights in breathtaking Tuscany, Italy leveling up their passion, desire, and commitment for their relationship.
Reignite is scheduled for September 14-19, 2025 in Tuscany, Italy.
Sign-ups are now open!
Meet us under the Tuscan sun.
Here’s a sneak peak at our 16,000 square foot luxury villa.
Our Tuscan villa stands at more than 16,000 square feet and is next door to a vineyard.
Each room at Reignite 2025 is a private king suite.
Our venue features a gorgeous outdoor pool, surrounded by the glowing Tuscan countryside.
An indoor pool and spa, so you can lounge whenever you want.
Our venue for Reignite is next door to a vineyard — it will be peak harvest season, so the vines will be full and beautiful!
Each day at Reignite, we'll have meals prepared by our in-house chef.
We'll have plenty of outdoor lounge spaces for you to enjoy the perfect Tuscan autumn.
An indoor spa so you can truly relax.
Beautiful views from every angle.
5-star dining, every single night.
Bright, airy rooms will keep you feeling energized throughout the retreat.
What’s Included
Reignite 2025 is an all-inclusive experience. Tap each + to learn more about what is included in your registration fee.
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Our 16,000 square-foot venue is spacious and comfortable — and so is your suite! Each suite at Reignite features a king-sized bed and a private bathroom.
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We’ll have delicious food available all day long. This year, we’ll have a continental breakfast bar for slow and luxurious mornings. Then, we’ll have group meals prepared by our in-house private chef for lunch and dinner. Your registration includes all meals, snacks, and beverages. We’ll stock the pantry based on your preferred foods.
Have questions about allergies or dietary accommodations? Email us!
And yes — we'll keep the house stocked with local wine.
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We'll have a shuttle bring you from the airport to the venue. You can fly into either Florence (FLR) or Pisa (PSA). Both airports are about one hour from the venue.
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A gift box filled with more than $400 worth of goodies will arrive on your doorstep the month before the retreat so you can start getting excited!
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We'll have a full day to explore the city of Florence — with tickets customized to you and your partners' interests! We'll also tour a local vineyard and olive grove, followed by a lunch and tasting.
The cherry on top is a chef-led tour of a local market, followed by a cooking class so you can bring some Italian cooking skills home with you!
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You and your babe/s will have a one-hour boudoir shoot scheduled into your Reignite itinerary. You'll be able to take photos both together and alone, and you'll work with Annika to make the process fun and playful!
Reignite 2025 attendees will receive all digital images from their shoot — a $3300 value!
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We’ll dive deep into the science of desire, the how-tos of cringe-free sexual communication, and simple strategies for reducing judgment so you can become more sexually adventurous. All three workshops are brand-new to Reignite and valued at $4800!
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Want to be able to take spicy selfies when you’re at home? Annika will teach you how to strike a pose so you can keep the fire lit once you head home.
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You and your babe/s will have a relaxing one-hour partners massage, so you can truly get into vacation mode.
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Stressed about styling yourself for your shoot? We've got your back! Hair and makeup services are included in your Reignite registration fee, so you can sit back and sip on some prosecco.
Say “hell yes” to each other again
Your relationship is worth nurturing. At Reignite, we take care of every little detail — from your accommodations to meals, excursions around the Tuscan countryside to booking massage services — so you can relax and focus on each other.
Reignite 2025 is an all-inclusive experience. Your fee covers everything for you and your partner at the retreat!
The registration fee for Reignite 2025 is 8 monthly payments of $1187.50 (total fee: $9500), or you can pay all at once.
That fee covers everything except your passport and plane tickets, so you can rest easy knowing that we’ve got it covered.
Add-On Experiences
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One Extra Night
Want to extend your stay at Reignite? You can add an extra night to your itinerary and check out on September 20th.
Extra night add-ons include your accommodations, food and drink, and a romantic dance class by the pool at sunset! Can you say “swoon”?
One extra night: $800
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Triad Add-On
More than two in your relationship? Triads are welcome at Reignite!
Standard Reignite registration is set for couples, so to add on a third partner, use the triad add-on fee. This covers the additional cost of meals, drinks, and activities.
Triad Add-On Fee: $2000
We’re here for who you are.
Body-Positive
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LGBTQ-Affirming
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Kink-Positive
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Polyamory-Friendly
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Body-Positive • LGBTQ-Affirming • Kink-Positive • Polyamory-Friendly •
We know that
you deserve to feel good.
Annika and Cassandra began working together in 2019. Each of their businesses is founded on the belief that you’re worthy of pleasure, just as you are today.
Together, they’re the powerhouse team behind the Self-Lust and Reignite Retreats.
Have a question about Reignite? Email us at Info@SelfLustRetreat.com and we’ll get back to you within two days!
FAQs
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Yes! Historically, 40-50% of our attendees for both Self-Lust and Reignite identify as LGBTQ. You might not be in a mixed-gender relationship, but your queerness is still real and there's room for it here!
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Reignite is a kink- and nonmonogamy-positive event, but it is not a swingers event. We don't host play parties at Reignite — but you'll likely chat with people who do practice nonmonogamy, since many of our clients are polyamorous!
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Reignite 2025 is scheduled from September 14-19 in Tuscany, Italy. You have the option to extend your stay by one night, making your checkout September 20th.
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If you cancel your reservation in writing before 6 months to the event start date (by March 15, 2025), you will receive an 50% refund on your monthly payments.
If you and your partner separate, or you wish to cancel your registration later than March 15, 2025 then it is your responsibility to find another couple to take your place…or bring along someone else! Although Reignite is intended for partners, no one can say that you and your latest Tinder date can’t enjoy a nice couples massage. If you need to make adjustments to your reservation, please email Info@SelfLustRetreat.com.
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You're never required to do anything at Reignite! So if you decide that you'd rather have solo downtime than do an activity, that's totally fine. It's your retreat, so you can do what works best for you!
That being said, we build lots of downtime and breaks into the schedule, so you'll have time to recharge in between activities.
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We'll host a call a couple months before the retreat begins to go over some basic retreat and photoshoot prep, including skincare, lingerie buying, and more. Otherwise, don't stress about it too much!
All attendees will be asked to fill out a pre-shoot questionnaire to help Annika prepare for your shoot. Annika will provide outfit and styling suggestions based on your preferences, just as if you were planning a regular session with her! All attendees will also be asked to sign a photo session contract.
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Everything Annika shoots is suggestive — meaning no sexual acts are actually happening. Nudity and kink accessories are totally fine, but please keep in mind that no sexual acts will be photographed.
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Your photos are automatically assumed private unless you choose to sign a form giving Ma Chérie Studios permission to use your images. You can also choose to share images anonymously — it’s all based on your comfort level!
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Annika will bring some kink accessories (including harnesses, handcuffs, whips, collars, gags, satin ties, etc) that you may use during your shoot if you’d like. However, Ma Chérie Studios believes that lingerie is a very personal wardrobe choice, so you should bring your own lingerie and clothing items! And if you want a specific prop to use during your shoot, you should plan to bring that with you (we’ll send you tips for traveling with sexy supplies).
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Many folks think that sex ed is just for teenagers, but sex education is for everyone! Don’t worry — we won’t be spending time in textbooks or demoing anything on bananas. Instead, expect open conversations about pleasure and challenges. The retreat workshops will focus on pleasure, connection, and communication within your relationship.
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Our private chef will be able to handle all dietary restrictions and allergies. You’ll be sent a survey about your dietary needs before the retreat, so make sure you fill that out so that we can plan to accommodate you! Please note that certified gluten-free snacks can be harder to find abroad, so if you have Celiac Disease, Chrons, or another strict gluten restriction, you may want to plan to bring some extra snacks, just in case. We’ll do our best to make sure that you have safe and delicious options, too!
