The Living Room

Online Community • All Genders • Global Access

Curiosity + Compassion

The Living Room is an online community space that brings the magic of Self-Lust and Reignite with us, wherever we go.

Membership to The Living Room is just $19/month.

The Living Room is open to everyone, regardless of gender or relationship status. Since it’s virtual, you can join from anywhere in the world!
Our only requirement: Bring curiosity, compassion, and kindness to all of your interactions in this space.
Every month, we’ll do a deep dive into a specific theme relating to bodies, sexuality, and how we understand ourselves in the world.
In The Living Room, you can expect:
- Weekly discussion board prompts
- Curated book lists for each monthly theme
- Worksheets, guided journal prompts, and more expert-created learning resources
- A group chat available 24/7
Once a month, we’ll host a virtual happy hour so you can get some face time with your new internet friends — and so we can do on-theme activities!

"The retreat was so amazing, relaxing, and educational. I was nervous going into it but by hour one I was at ease, meeting new people, and enjoying myself. I was sad that it was over! It felt like we had all known each other longer than three days. "

Self-Lust 2022 Attendee
"It took only one moment at the retreat to know that something magical and safe and sexy was in the air! In all honesty, this retreat has actively changed my life. And I now continue forward on my sexual-health journey with support from Cassandra, Annika, and so many people that I met during my time at Self-Lust!"

Self-Lust 2022 Attendee
"The retreat was somehow both a breath of fresh air and a snuggly hug. It felt like our little oasis from the world. I honestly felt more relaxed than I have in months, and I really appreciated the time and space to reflect, rest, and think about my relationship with myself. On top of all of that, we got to hang out with such a genuine, kind, talented group. Dreamy!"

Self-Lust 2022 Attendee
"It was absolutely life-changing. Being in a space with so many incredible people, making friends, and having the space to experience true confidence in myself, my body, and my sexuality was one of the most incredible experiences I've ever had. "

Self-Lust 2022 Attendee

Cassandra and Annika began working together in 2019.

Each of their businesses is founded on the belief that you’re worthy of pleasure, just as you are today.

Together, they’re the powerhouse team behind the Self-Lust, Reignite, and The Living Room.